What if meaningful change wasn't about doing more, but about creating space to reconnect with yourself? Small, intentional daily practices can become powerful opportunities for self-reflection, emotional healing, and rediscovering your inner wisdom, especially when life feels unsettled.
After experiencing a powerful earthquake in Panama, Cherie Ashana found herself navigating unexpected emotional shifts alongside the excitement and demands of everyday life. Returning to the personal rituals that have supported her for decades, Cherie shares how journaling, conscious breathing, movement, and moments of stillness help her process emotions, find clarity, and deepen her spiritual connection. Through an intimate reading from her own journal, she offers a glimpse into the healing and self-discovery that can unfold when we give ourselves permission to slow down and listen within.
Whether it's five minutes of reflection, a walk in nature, or putting pen to paper, your daily practice doesn't need to be elaborate or perfect to be meaningful. It's about finding something uniquely yours and nurturing your relationship with yourself, one intentional moment at a time.
A question to carry with you: What is one small practice you could bring into your day that would help you feel more connected, present, and alive?
What You’re Invited to Discover:
- How unexpected disruptions can bring unresolved emotions and hidden patterns to the surface.
- Why giving yourself permission to rest can open the door to fresh perspectives.
- The difference between expressing gratitude and exploring the deeper layers of what you're feeling.
- How creative expression can reveal parts of yourself that are asking to be heard.
- Why your personal practice doesn't need to look like anyone else's to be valuable.
Get your Copy of the 7 Day SacredSHE Reset ebook at https://awakenedshe.com/
About the Host:
Cherie Ashana is the author of Sacred SHE Reset, founder of AwakenedSHE, and host of the SacredSHE Reset Podcast. Drawing on her own journey through early menopause, burnout, healing and reinvention, she supports women in midlife to reconnect with their bodies, reclaim their voice and create a life rooted in greater vitality, self-trust and purpose. Her work blends lived experience with holistic practices including breath, sound, somatic healing and her Four Pillars of Radiance Framework: Health, Healing, Happiness and Heart.
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Cherie Ashana:If you're a woman in midlife who's done doing this alone and
Cherie Ashana:ready for real conversations, real wisdom, and real radiance,
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Cherie Ashana:Welcome, welcome, beautiful sisters to Sacred She Reset,
Cherie Ashana:awakening your radiant wisdom. And I'm your host Sharia Shana.
Cherie Ashana:It is an honor and a privilege to be with you again today. I'm
Cherie Ashana:in Panama, as you know. It is a magical day. We've had a week's
Cherie Ashana:worth of rain and storms and all sorts of things happening, and
Cherie Ashana:I'm riding the flow this morning. So I'm kind of
Cherie Ashana:recording off the cuff. I just had an energy current come
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Cherie Ashana:created a big ripple and a big shift. And speaking of great
Cherie Ashana:ripples and great shifts, a week ago today, as of recording here,
Cherie Ashana:it's we're recording in October, middle of October, 2026. One
Cherie Ashana:week ago at 1 p.m. today, we had an earthquake here in Panama.
Cherie Ashana:So I don't know if you've ever been in an earthquake. I know
Cherie Ashana:it's I've we've had earth tremors and different things in
Cherie Ashana:Australia, but a proper earthquake rating 7.7 scared the
Cherie Ashana:bejesus out of me. It literally has rocked my world, and yes,
Cherie Ashana:we're safe. No, no need to worry. We're safe. We were out
Cherie Ashana:of our home for a couple of days and making sure the building was
Cherie Ashana:okay. But I was on the 12th floor at the time, online, busy
Cherie Ashana:working. Right in, I was right in the flow. You know, when
Cherie Ashana:you're in that zone and you're like, ah, clearly getting
Cherie Ashana:feeling really productive today, and it hit at 1:06 p.m. I will
Cherie Ashana:never forget the time. I will never forget the moment, and it
Cherie Ashana:literally felt like the walls were fluid. Um, on the 12th
Cherie Ashana:floor, the building was doing these ones and swaying, and
Cherie Ashana:pretty much since a week ago, we have continued to have
Cherie Ashana:aftershock after aftershock after aftershock rippling
Cherie Ashana:through. So it has felt like a week of movement. It has felt
Cherie Ashana:like a week of great shifting, both internally and externally.
Cherie Ashana:And there's nothing like a natural disaster to kind of when
Cherie Ashana:you're over here on one track and whoop, the universe has got
Cherie Ashana:a completely different plan for you.
Cherie Ashana:So today, with all that said, yes, I've been feeling like my
Cherie Ashana:week has been a bit of a roller coaster, very unsettled. I've
Cherie Ashana:been feeling quite unsettled internally, and then big things
Cherie Ashana:happening this week, like the launch of this podcast happened
Cherie Ashana:this week, and so there's been big things, big things moving,
Cherie Ashana:lots of things coming up, and so the ground literally beneath my
Cherie Ashana:feet was shaking, and so that seems to have created a ripple
Cherie Ashana:effect throughout my life this week for deep reflection, and so
Cherie Ashana:today I'm coming to you with what's really been landing. It
Cherie Ashana:feels like it's almost a an energy reading of of what I feel
Cherie Ashana:is happening and what's going on, whether locally or globally,
Cherie Ashana:and if this speaks to you, great. I'd love you to share
Cherie Ashana:some comments, write to me, connect with me. I love this
Cherie Ashana:stuff, but I feel for me personally, there's been this
Cherie Ashana:big shift of. So I've been creating all these amazing
Cherie Ashana:things, these wonderful things. They've got great launches
Cherie Ashana:coming up, and all these like I'm really in the groove. Like
Cherie Ashana:it's been a year of big movement, and and releasing, and
Cherie Ashana:stepping up, and really stepping into full visibility. But with
Cherie Ashana:that, on the other side of that, there has been these deep, deep
Cherie Ashana:reflective moments of the shadow rising and rising very quickly
Cherie Ashana:and very abruptly. You know, it's like, oh, all this over
Cherie Ashana:here, and then boom, and then boom. Oh, you're going to have
Cherie Ashana:to deal with some more shadow and some more things that are
Cherie Ashana:coming up, and that's been really confronting this week.
Cherie Ashana:But what I've been reminded of this morning is a few things,
Cherie Ashana:and I'm fortunate enough. I'm really, really blessed to have
Cherie Ashana:the most beautiful partner companion in my life. He's the
Cherie Ashana:most spectacular person.
Cherie Ashana:He's my person, the one for me. All the things, and if you know
Cherie Ashana:me, you know who I'm talking. About to be able to sit in
Cherie Ashana:communication and have conversations, deep connected
Cherie Ashana:conversations with someone you love and who's close to you, who
Cherie Ashana:gets you and sees you, is being so important, especially when
Cherie Ashana:you're going through something and something's rattled you or a
Cherie Ashana:big shift. But also for me, returning back to my daily
Cherie Ashana:practice, and the last week because it's been a bit topsy
Cherie Ashana:turvy. There's been a lot going on. There's been a lot of
Cherie Ashana:different distractions. I've been reminded this morning of
Cherie Ashana:how important that daily practice is to me, and I'm going
Cherie Ashana:somewhere with this. So stay with me. And everybody's
Cherie Ashana:practice is different. Mine in particular is some movement,
Cherie Ashana:some some breath work. I use sound, as you know. I work with
Cherie Ashana:the voice and the sound and moving whatever's stuck in the
Cherie Ashana:body through the voice, which is super super helpful. I will go
Cherie Ashana:into that in another episode.
Cherie Ashana:But the one thing that has been so cathartic for me, right from
Cherie Ashana:a child, I started this at 14 years old, has been writing in
Cherie Ashana:my journal, and it's not just gratitudes. I mean, I use my
Cherie Ashana:journal to to purge, to dive deep into shadow, to really get
Cherie Ashana:up what's underneath what I'm feeling, and so this morning I
Cherie Ashana:found myself explaining to. I read something out from my
Cherie Ashana:journal. I'm actually going to share it with you in this
Cherie Ashana:episode today. I read something out to my beautiful partner, and
Cherie Ashana:I was explaining to him how I receive this information, and
Cherie Ashana:because I'm big on writing, I feel like I can express so
Cherie Ashana:beautifully through putting pen to paper. It's a very cathartic,
Cherie Ashana:deep, intimate time for me when I put pen to paper, and it is
Cherie Ashana:proven that putting pen to paper really does help to move any
Cherie Ashana:energy that's stuck, anything that's underneath. It can be
Cherie Ashana:really healing. It has been so healing for me in my life, and
Cherie Ashana:so I wanted to share this with you in real time because I
Cherie Ashana:yesterday I was really tired. I'd come off the back of an
Cherie Ashana:amazing day, Potter Palooza. I'd done a lot of interviews, great
Cherie Ashana:online for a lot of the day, big chunk of the day, and I came off
Cherie Ashana:yesterday feeling really, you know, a little bit up and down,
Cherie Ashana:and just energy was down and flat, and then I was okay. And
Cherie Ashana:anyway, last night I was just feeling absolutely pooped. I
Cherie Ashana:felt completely stuffed. I got in the chair and I wasn't
Cherie Ashana:scrolling on social media, but I had a little spark of
Cherie Ashana:inspiration come through to start looking through some of my
Cherie Ashana:resources and doing something a little bit productive. And I was
Cherie Ashana:just sitting there relaxing.
Cherie Ashana:Anyway, I had this energy continually coming over me of
Cherie Ashana:feeling kind of flat and then okay, and it's like I'm just
Cherie Ashana:going to take myself to bed, and for me, a good night's sleep. If
Cherie Ashana:I'm tired, if I get a good night's sleep, I'm great. If I
Cherie Ashana:have shitty night sleep all in a row and I haven't slept in a
Cherie Ashana:long time, I'm not great. Like I'm really not great for showing
Cherie Ashana:up. I want to hide. I want to become a hermit, and so this
Cherie Ashana:this thing of sleep is really important for me. Go to bed,
Cherie Ashana:have a great sleep, hit the pillow, out, bang, wake up. I
Cherie Ashana:think I must have had seven and a half hours of solid sleep.
Cherie Ashana:Woke up before dawn, before the light was hitting. It was
Cherie Ashana:beautiful. Watch sunrise, and all of a sudden, I could feel
Cherie Ashana:what was stuck, or had been stuck, or was trying to shift
Cherie Ashana:for the last week. It needed some room, and so down goes the
Cherie Ashana:mat. Out comes the journal. The movement's happening. All the
Cherie Ashana:thing, and I can feel this shift happening. I can feel the
Cherie Ashana:excitement of this, this, this movement, oh, there's an insight
Cherie Ashana:coming, but without attaching to it. And so I just, it was so
Cherie Ashana:beautiful. I have so much gratitude for giving myself the
Cherie Ashana:time to take the time out to sit on the mat, and even if that's
Cherie Ashana:five minutes or it's 40 minutes, I don't know.
Cherie Ashana:I've had some mornings when I've got the luxury of time where it
Cherie Ashana:can be two hours, I'm sitting out there and then I make a cup
Cherie Ashana:of tea and I sit and I watch the birds. Anyway, my point is just
Cherie Ashana:making that space, and when you're feeling things moving,
Cherie Ashana:make the space, create the space. It is important, and I'm
Cherie Ashana:talking like this because I'm trying to make a point. Make the
Cherie Ashana:space for yourself to to feel what's rising, and when I say
Cherie Ashana:feel what's rising, for me this morning I could feel the energy
Cherie Ashana:of this, the brightness and the lightness moving. But at the
Cherie Ashana:same time, I was still trudging. I was in the trenches with some
Cherie Ashana:shadow stuff there that I've been moving through, and so I'm
Cherie Ashana:really looking forward to sharing this piece from my
Cherie Ashana:journal because it will give you an idea of what's going on
Cherie Ashana:inside me and what's happening in this process. And so to just
Cherie Ashana:loop back to what I was saying about sharing with how I receive
Cherie Ashana:this information, and like I said, I've been doing this
Cherie Ashana:process since I was 14 years old. I am 51 now, and so not
Cherie Ashana:every day I would be lying if I said I've been doing it every
Cherie Ashana:day. Not every day, but I have been sitting with pen and paper
Cherie Ashana:from a young girl, and it has brought about some of my
Cherie Ashana:deepest, most profound healing in my life.
Cherie Ashana:Really, really deep healing, and most of which I have not shared
Cherie Ashana:with anybody. The writing that you see that I put on Substack
Cherie Ashana:is different to what I write in my journal, so I wear different
Cherie Ashana:hats with my writing, I'm able to shape shift, and yeah, it's
Cherie Ashana:one of my superpowers, and I'm really proud to say that because
Cherie Ashana:we all need to have something that is in most alignment with
Cherie Ashana:us for our healing, so we can self soothe, and we can actually
Cherie Ashana:create the space for ourselves to do the healing that's needed,
Cherie Ashana:so that we can have this growth, and so that we can move through
Cherie Ashana:everything that's happening around us: earthquakes, other
Cherie Ashana:natural disasters, chaos, children screaming, whatever it
Cherie Ashana:is. You should. We need these processes more and more and more
Cherie Ashana:these days. And so my process is what happens is like I need to
Cherie Ashana:be hitting pen to paper most days, and I always I've got
Cherie Ashana:really pretty pens in a pens beautiful pencil case. If you're
Cherie Ashana:only listening to this, I'm holding up my beautiful colored
Cherie Ashana:pencil case. I have at this time around I have a really beautiful
Cherie Ashana:hardback journal. I like, you know, I like journals that are
Cherie Ashana:quite thick. My journals before were like really chunky, almost
Cherie Ashana:like little Bibles with gold around, gold trim around the
Cherie Ashana:pages.
Cherie Ashana:To me, that's important. And so when I hit that cushion and I'm
Cherie Ashana:sitting on the mat and I'm putting pen to paper. I feel I
Cherie Ashana:feel like I I am in direct communion with God. And when I
Cherie Ashana:say God, I'm I'm spiritual. I'm not religious, but I have a
Cherie Ashana:deeply intimate relationship with the Creator. I have a
Cherie Ashana:deeply intimate relationship with this around us, this thing
Cherie Ashana:that is just so much bigger than us, and a trust and a faith in
Cherie Ashana:it that is unwavering. And so it's like when I open the book
Cherie Ashana:and put the pen to paper, something happens, and I've got
Cherie Ashana:chills running through me now. It's something starts to
Cherie Ashana:channel, starts to open up. It's like I say yes, and it's it
Cherie Ashana:happens. It just happens. It's a practiced happening. It's
Cherie Ashana:something I've been dedicated to, and so what I start to see
Cherie Ashana:is I'm outside of myself, and I'm journeying, and I see it's
Cherie Ashana:like a movie, like a dream, and I'm writing, and it's like
Cherie Ashana:sometimes I don't even know what's coming through. There's
Cherie Ashana:no thought. There's no trying to figure it out getting in the
Cherie Ashana:way. It's it like that's why I say it's this direct source with
Cherie Ashana:with God, And that knowing I have that relationship, and
Cherie Ashana:knowing I have that energy frequency flowing through me,
Cherie Ashana:and that I can tap into that at any time, completely fills me
Cherie Ashana:up. Like I'm lighting up today.
Cherie Ashana:It fills me with complete joy that there's something far
Cherie Ashana:greater than me taking care of us, and so I would love to just
Cherie Ashana:read a little part of what I wrote in my journal today. It
Cherie Ashana:seems that last week's earthquake has shaken up more
Cherie Ashana:than I bargained for. It feels like at the moment there is a
Cherie Ashana:constant movement beneath my feet of everything in my life,
Cherie Ashana:and I can see the finish line so close. And it's not a finish and
Cherie Ashana:done, like oh, it's over, but rather ah, I can breathe. This
Cherie Ashana:stage is done. It's been a big time, large in nature. I can see
Cherie Ashana:how pebbles become so round and smooth over time. That is me.
Cherie Ashana:Rolling in and out with the tide. At least clarity has been
Cherie Ashana:bestowed upon me this morning. With rested, fresh eyes, I am
Cherie Ashana:anew.
Cherie Ashana:Yesterday's discomfort, it's gone, and I'm gifted with a
Cherie Ashana:sense of knowing what to present next in my life. What is asking
Cherie Ashana:for more flexibility, and the attachments that have kept me
Cherie Ashana:anchored to an old way of knowing, with freshness of
Cherie Ashana:breath all around me, and eyes with which I can see even more
Cherie Ashana:deeply into my internal realms, I have bobbed to the surface of
Cherie Ashana:this rising tide with mouth open wide, like a baby bird waiting
Cherie Ashana:for its next feed from the Creator itself, feeling alive
Cherie Ashana:and held once again by that almighty guiding force that is
Cherie Ashana:always there to support us, no matter how rough it gets or
Cherie Ashana:appears to feel, and that's just a small portion of my my journal
Cherie Ashana:this morning. I find that I go through stages of there's
Cherie Ashana:different. It's almost like different parts of me wants to
Cherie Ashana:come through to speak to to be heard, and there's I laugh
Cherie Ashana:because there's this this poetic part of me that almost speaks in
Cherie Ashana:sort of Yale English sort of flowing. There's these funny
Cherie Ashana:terms that come out sometimes, and over time, I'm going to
Cherie Ashana:share with you more and more of my journal. But I remember, I
Cherie Ashana:remember writing in my journal and having this purge about
Cherie Ashana:something I was moving through with regards to my father and my
Cherie Ashana:parents, and and the the way you know how we we choose this and
Cherie Ashana:we come in, and it was all this like purging and wah and these
Cherie Ashana:big words and and it was there's that this that part of me I
Cherie Ashana:welcome in because I love what she brings I love the words that
Cherie Ashana:come through her and she's not always here and when she does I
Cherie Ashana:was there's something really healing about that particular
Cherie Ashana:way of how that information is channeled through me and hits
Cherie Ashana:the page, and so I won't keep this episode too long.
Cherie Ashana:I really just wanted to come in and share with you the
Cherie Ashana:importance of a daily practice, no matter what that is. And for
Cherie Ashana:me, it's on my mat with my writing, you know, it might be a
Cherie Ashana:walk on the beach where you're having a chat to yourself. I
Cherie Ashana:know I do that too. You may want to talk into a tape recorder.
Cherie Ashana:That that is like a wonderful thing to do and hear yourself
Cherie Ashana:back. It's actually really, really healing, and you can hear
Cherie Ashana:some other layers. Often we can, you know, with my writing, I can
Cherie Ashana:read between the lines. I can, I can get a sense of what's not
Cherie Ashana:being spoken or what needs to come to the light. And so, I
Cherie Ashana:want to leave you with just a a reflection, really, in your own
Cherie Ashana:life of where where there's a gap or where there's some energy
Cherie Ashana:that needs to shift, and are you possibly missing? Are you
Cherie Ashana:probably is there a missing piece of not giving yourself
Cherie Ashana:something like this that is truly truly yours? And you could
Cherie Ashana:be hearing me going, "Oh my God, she's been doing it for decades.
Cherie Ashana:Oh my God, I can't keep up with that. You don't have to keep up
Cherie Ashana:with me. You don't have to keep up with a girlfriend that's
Cherie Ashana:doing something extraordinary well. This is about your
Cherie Ashana:journey. This is about who you are right here, right now, and
Cherie Ashana:it could be quilting, coloring in, whatever it is to just bring
Cherie Ashana:those creative juices through and channel something that is
Cherie Ashana:uniquely yours, just for you. And so, this is getting rid of
Cherie Ashana:the noise.
Cherie Ashana:Not like, oh, you should do this, Mary, or you should.
Cherie Ashana:You're really good at this, because often that's not good
Cherie Ashana:advice. It's something we need to take. We go within, and it's
Cherie Ashana:like I've always I've been really good at this, or I would
Cherie Ashana:love to do this. And take the time, give yourself the time,
Cherie Ashana:take the walk on the beach, take the walk in nature, ride the
Cherie Ashana:bicycle, whatever it is, to just connect with that part of you,
Cherie Ashana:because we can get so cluttered in the everyday that we
Cherie Ashana:literally forget about ourselves. And I tell you what,
Cherie Ashana:one of my missions here is so you do not forget about
Cherie Ashana:yourself. This is a place where you're included, and I'm
Cherie Ashana:encouraging. Growth, and I'm encouraging brightness and light
Cherie Ashana:sparkling off everywhere. This is about awakening your radiant
Cherie Ashana:wisdom, and I'd love for you. It's an invitation.
Cherie Ashana:I encourage you today to take one step towards awakening your
Cherie Ashana:radiant wisdom without trying to figure out what it is like?
Cherie Ashana:Getting the head involved. Drop into that heart. Breathe into
Cherie Ashana:the body, and go. What really us? Like what? What is it for
Cherie Ashana:me? That practice that I've left for a long time and haven't gone
Cherie Ashana:back to that I love, or what's new? What's next? This has been
Cherie Ashana:an honor and a privilege. Like I always say, I love being with
Cherie Ashana:you. I love talking to you and connecting with you, and I look
Cherie Ashana:forward to being with you next week. And in the meantime, don't
Cherie Ashana:forget to subscribe and follow and share all of this, and come
Cherie Ashana:and join the community. And come across onto Facebook. That's
Cherie Ashana:where it is at the moment. And I'm always open to
Cherie Ashana:conversations, connections that are consciously led. See you
Cherie Ashana:soon. Love you. Bye for now.

